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In the porn-scene, there is spoken about the ‘line’ of what is abusive and what not. How rough the sex is, if the woman did agree on it, and within this if the woman was informed about what would happen before she agreed on it and if she had a possibility to stop if it was not what she expected and she could not handle it. So actually the questions that are asked within this, are all about what is allowed and what not Within the total allowance of Pornography.

The point in this is: aren’t we asking the wrong question? The question is manipulating the outcome of the answer.

We have to look beyond the balance of this ‘thin line’ of acceptances and allowances Within pornography. What should be questioned, is the Existence of Pornography as a Whole. We are so ‘used to’ the existence of porn, that we do not even look anymore why it exist in the first place, what it is in this world that caused us to Watch Other People Having Sex, from soft ways to the most horrific ways we can imagine. Isn’t this The question in itself?

What causes us to watch porn as other people having sex? Because, the demand determines the product, so the question why porn exist is simple: because there is a demand so it is a way to make money. So, if you are watching porn: you are distributing towards the money system which is not taking care of all living beings on earth and within this all human beings on earth, so actually you are watching a product that is distributing the abuse of life on earth. You really think the porn stars would do this job if there was no money involved? Get real. Would you do this?

So this is the first thing to realise, porn is here because people are making money of it and we are all dependent on money which is not equally distributed, and so we are all living in and as a survival mode.

Second thing is the act of sex in itself.

Why are you watching to other people having sex? Isn’t sex just a physical act, firstly implanted to reproduce, just as animals do, and secondly usefull as a support to become more physical, to enjoy physical touch and interaction, if and when it is applied in a way that is supportive to the physical body and where in people that are involved agree equally, without any manipulation applied, which means they should be totally aware of what they are doing. To be totally aware of what we are doing before we make the decision to have sex, we should be educated in this. And who in the world is Really educated in the principles of having sex in a pleasurably and respective way? Are you? Who did teach you this? The porn movie that you watched, which is produced to make money and where there is ‘free choise’ of how abusive you like to watch it?

The point is, we don’t know what we are doing while we are having sex. We actually have no idea. Most just start doing this because the whole world is making a lot of noise about this, combined with hormonal changes inside our body around the age of 14, which are activated and making us feeling restless. Within this, first thing we ‘learn’ in this world, is that we have to ‘do’ something with these activated hormones, and if we don’t, we are ‘missing out’ on something. This something means ‘sex’. We learn that we miss something if we do not have sex. So, in essence, we learn to have sex to make us ‘feel better’ than who we are without having sex. This in itself implies that sex is Used, so abused to ‘reach something’, which is a ‘better feeling’ about ourselves. This is called Self-interest.

Did you need sex when you were a young child? No. It is activated. I am not saying that we should not have sex. I am saying, that we have to really investigate what sex contains, that we have to be educated in this and educate the ones that come after us. That we are not ‘more or less’ when having sex or not having sex. There is no ‘free choise’ in this, we are all addicted to this search for ‘feeling better’ about ourselves.

And porn is made to feed this, and at the same time making money out of it, which makes the ones who make money out of it, ‘feel better’ or ‘more powerful’, who are using the ones who ‘choose’ to involve because they need the money to survive.

It is not ‘normal’ to watch other people having sex, just because we like it. If you could choose, would you choose to watch other people having sex or would you choose to do it yourself? Are you watching at movies that you know are really abusive if you would act this movie out in reality? So you choose to ‘watch this’ other people doing on a screen? Why are these people doing this? Because of your demand for it; you buy it, they get money for it. So actually, porn starts are acting out on all the hidden fantasies of human beings who are willing to pay money for it.

If you do not watch porn, but have imagines in your head during masturbation or having sex, this is exactly the same. It is all connected to each other in the same mind consciousness system. And we are all contributing to this. We ‘think’ it is harmless to make pictures in our head, but it is not. And this is what we should seriously be educated in. Only this education can make us see how we All are equally responsible for the large abuse that happen in this world, which are all related to the area of money and sex. And deep down, we know this, otherwise we would not hide it. we only don’t understand How it is related. If you deny, you are not self-honest and you want to move on only for your self-interest. Which is a serious problem.

If you see the common sense in this article and you find yourself addicted to for example watching porn-movies – also the innocent ones – know that there is support to understand and stop this addiction. Know that being self-honest in this, and saying, hey, I see I have a problem here, I only don’t know what to do about it, this is self-honest and it takes courage to stand up in this.

There is a lot of free material available to start educating yourself. It is a lot, but just start and take on one by one. Allow yourself to free yourself from this addiction, as any addiction is only making you feel better for a very short time and it makes you feel worse afterwards, and this will feeling worse will enlarge. This is how addiction works, and we know it.

If you have the chance – meaning if you access to internet, which you have, otherwise you would not be able to read this article – educate yourself, and within this, stand up for a world that is free form all sorts of abuse, related to sex and money.

To all people who are just having ‘innocent’ pictures in your head of wanting to have sex with your lovely neighbour, and for the rest having a ‘stable’ life with enough money to live and a wife and kids; also: educate yourself. You are the ones that are able in the first place to stand up. Exactly just because you are ‘stable’, you can start with the self-support Right Now. Stand up for Life on Earth, stop the allowance of abuse related to money and sex and be a part of the solution. If we all do so, this world will be a total different place, as a place where we all are willing to live and contribute; if we all give as we would like to receive.

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